Sunday, May 06, 2012

Civilised divorce

Debrett’s, the long established publisher of guides to the gentry, have now got together with lawyers Mishcon de Reya (divorce lawyers to Princess Diana) to provide a Guide to Civilised Separation.

Although some of the advice will be well above the pay grade of most of the more than 100,000 couples who divorce each year in England & Wales (It’s no good claiming a Fortnum & Mason lifestyle if you’ve always been satisfied with Sainsbury[sic]; don’t waste time & money arguing about who should get the best dinner service; don’t try to buy the children’s love – you will get into a competitive frenzy of ever more expensive treats, exotic holidays & designer labels) I do think such a guide can play a valuable role.

Polite & civilised behaviour always helps, no matter how fraught & upsetting the circumstances, when you often need to be reminded that others – in-laws & friends, work colleagues – are also affected.

At the same time those who are wealthy enough to afford the fees will now be able to achieve a legally binding agreement over money & children, arrived at through arbitration behind closed doors. Which will be good for those involved, while at the same time reducing the gaiety of a nation unable to gawp & wonder at these celebrity tribulations.

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